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REINCARNATION AND PAST LIFE REGRESSIONS Reincarnation has been a subject that has fascinated the
human race for almost as long as there has BEEN a human race! There
have been references to reincarnation in the writings of most
civilizations throughout the ages. Eastern religions accept reincarnation
more readily than western. I won't get into it here, as it is not the
intention or scope of this lecture to get into religions, and religious
beliefs. However, there are people who believe and claim to have evidence
that the Bible had many references to reincarnation, before it was
"rewritten".
Reincarnation is a highly debated topic and brings out strong opinions,
especially in the scientific community.
Some believe this fascination is only because of our fear of death - our
fear of ceasing to exist. Death has such finality. If we believe
we live only one life, it would mean we are quite insignificant in the
universal scope of things. For some, that mortality is easier to cope with
in the knowledge that we will be again.
Others find it a very logical explanation for such phenomena as deja vu,
child prodigies, or that feeling of already knowing someone we've met for
the first time.
Many of us have probably experienced going to a place for the first time,
and instinctively known our way around or have that uncanny sense that
we've been at that place before. With people, again, often we'll meet
someone for the first time, and have a sense of familiarity with the
person. It can even go so far as to having an immediate like or dislike of
that person.
Yet others feel it is merely a byproduct of an overactive imagination,
perhaps fueled by television, movies, books, or stories we heard when
children.
Professionals who use “past life regressions in therapy have differing
opinions. Some believe that there past lifetimes do exist. Others are not
convinced but are open-minded about the possibility.
Yet others do not believe the concept at all, and consider past life
regression work to totally be metaphorical. They believe the client
"makes up" the previous lifetime. They consider that it is
merely a fantasy -- a "story" that the subconscious mind of their
client has made up to deal with problems in this lifetime.
No matter which side of the "coin" you stand on, each side has
what it feels as incontrovertible evidence for it's belief or non-belief in
reincarnation. The focus of this lecture is neither to prove, nor disprove
reincarnation. My purpose is to give "food for thought"
My personal belief is that it is highly probable. Being a Capricorn, I tend
to like to have things "proved" to me without any shadow of a
doubt, so it would be difficult to say I totally accept it at face value.
As a regressionist, I have done literally thousands of past life
regressions.
It is not my intention (or my job) to sit there and judge my clients as to
whether or not their regression is "real". Yes, I have had
clients where I’ve instinctively known that they are producing material
from a very vivid imagination. Yet...I've had many clients where - again -
I instinctively have known - that it is NOT their imagination.
When I "do" a past life regression on someone, I like to ferret
out as many facts as possible, such as names, dates, and places. This
gives the chance of finding out if the person actually lived. This, of
course, is difficult with lifetimes in the mid-ages. Opponents will argue
that even if someone DOES come up with factual names, dates and
places, that the person merely had foreknowledge of the existence of that
data, even if only subconsciously.
One regression I did was on a young man who I had worked with before. He
was an exceptional client to work with as he was able to give names, dates,
and places quite easily. On one session, he described the lifetime of a
young woman in a small town in the mid-west. The lifetime was within the
last 100 years, so he was able to find records of this woman’s existence.
My client had never been outside of New England, and all of his relatives
were from Europe, as he was a first generation American.
Can I prove that my client had no subconscious foreknowledge of this
woman? No, I can't. Perhaps some friend, or acquaintance had told him
about THEIR relative? Perhaps he just does not remember consciously that
conversation? Perhaps he just overheard it and gave it no real conscious
thought? Still, I find it fascinating!
One area in which I find reincarnational theory to be fascinating is with
relationships. As I said earlier, I am sure most of us have had the
experience of meeting someone new - yet having that feeling that you know
this person.
This experience can be from both vantage points - the feeling that you feel
wonderfully connected to this person - or the feeling of intense
dislike, distrust or unease.
In my own experience, I recall being at a dance with some friends. Being a
"people watcher" I always like to look at the people around me.
Well, standing over on the other side of the room there was a man who had
his back turned to me. As my gaze rested on him, he suddenly turned around
- and I have to tell you, I felt like the proverbial ton of bricks hit me!
Now, this wasn't the "across a crowded room" type of romantic
attraction. I felt this overpowering feeling that I couldn't quite define.
When he looked at me, for the first few fleeting seconds, he glared at me
with such an intense look of hatred, it unnerved me.
I dismissed it however, for within seconds the look changed to one of
"checking me out". He came over within a few moments and asked
me to dance. I found myself wondering why I accepted. Everyone seems to
have a "type" they are attracted to - and this person was the
opposite for me. Yet, I could not turn him down.
I won't go into a long story, but we had a short "dating"
relationship. I could never bring myself to have a romantic relationship
with him. To tell you the truth, we both did not like each other. In the
few times we did see each other, the man did not treat me well at all. Not
that he was abusive - but rather like he thought of me as somehow beneath
his contempt.
I could not understand my reaction to this man, never mind why I even
allowed myself to go out with him. I knew that it had to be more than
a "on the surface" reaction.
I decided to do a regression on myself. The lifetime I came up with was
in Western Europe, in the late 1500's. In this lifetime I was a fairly
well-to-do merchant. I traveled quite a bit. As this lifetime unfolded to
me, I just saw myself going from place to place. I tried to pay particular
attention to people I had dealings with, but none seemed to have any
feeling attached to my relationships with them.
As I went on, however, I finally noticed that I traveled with a slave. I
was very well dressed - well fed and so on. My slave was poorly dressed
and very gaunt. As the regression continued, I noticed that if I happened
to think about feeding the slave, I'd throw a few scraps at it. If it
needed clothes, well, not my problem. It was just not an important part of
what was going on around me, and the things I was doing.
All of a sudden, the realization hit me. I thought of the slave is
"it"! I then paid attention to the person who was the slave -
and of course I'm sure you've guessed it - I knew at that point that he was
the fellow I was now dating!
Actually, the whole thing was very upsetting to me. I consider myself a
reasonably caring person! And here I was in a lifetime where...well...I
just never even considered the fact that my slave was a human being!
Needless to say, I ended the relationship as it was serving no purpose.
And this brings me to...karma.
Karma, in my opinion is one of the most over-rated, misunderstood and
ill-used concepts in metaphysics! How many times have you heard people
say, "well, it's my karma?"
That type of statement often indicates that the person feels they have no
control over things - it just "is". They may feel that they are
being "punished" for actions or characteristics in a previous
life.
Or they use it as a very convenient way to explain bad behavior! Well, in
a past life, I "fill in the blank", so that's why I act this way.
It's just my karma!"
My belief is that "karma" is related more to the "lessons
and challenges" that we face in this lifetime. I believe we choose
those lessons in advance. I feel this is done on a "soul" level
- rather than in the "ego" type of state we are presently in.
The "soul" level is objective, and does not have "personal
feelings", "ego", or "human ambition", and so
forth figuring into the equation.
This lifetime's lesson could be to learn how to deal with poverty. Or
cruelty, sickness, mental retardation, or even war. On the other hand, it
could be to experience happiness, love, security or peace.
It has even occurred to me, that someone’s lesson could be in actuality for
OTHER people. Perhaps the "purpose" of a young child who dies
after a few hours or days, is to be part of the parents' "life
lesson"? I don't have the answer here...it is just a thought.
I don't believe it's "individual" events that karma is about;
rather I believe it's the overall "lesson" or challenge. And to
my way of thinking, the purpose of a "lesson" or challenge is not
to get STUCK in it! So to say, "it's my karma" and not working
with it, in my opinion, is a waste of this lifetime!
Regression work, whether you believe in the actuality of past lifetimes, or
whether you prefer to think of it metaphorically, is fascinating. As a
certified hypnotherapist, of course I feel that the best method is to have
a regression done. However, you CAN do regression work on yourself!
Two self-regression methods are "regression" tapes, and
dreamwork. There are many tapes on the market that will do "guided
imagery" regressions. I will soon have a tape available in my catalogue
for Past Life Regression.
My favorite self-regression technique is via dreamwork.
It's easy, inexpensive (well, actually - free!) Since you are going to
usually sleep every night any way, a very "handy" technique!
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